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Get Your ex girlfriend back

Posted on 12:24 AM by Mr FX_is


When the person you love breaks up with you, often you aren't exactly satisfied with that situation. Most of us in that position would love nothing more than to fix whatever was broken and heal the relationship...but few of us do. Why? The answer may surprise you. There are a number of factors that all contribute to whether or not you're successful in your campaign to get your ex back. I'm going to list the 3 biggest ones, with a brief explanation of each, so that you may understand exactly how you need to approach the goal of reuniting with your ex.

1) The first point I'll cover is your Viewpoint. How you look at the relationship, its end, and your aim to rebuild it makes all the difference. If you look at yourself as a victim, whether it be of your ex's unfairness or your own relationship-fatal mistakes, you'll never find the strength to rise above and succeed in winning back your ex. It's important to understand that mistakes can be made by anyone, and feeling sorry for yourself or mad at your ex won't help you any. Look at this breakup as an opportunity for learning and self-betterment. If you can fix the biggest problems in your relationship, that relationship will be so much more positive, and you'll be so much happier. Use this as a springboard to renovate yourself and your life.

2) Another big factor is motivation. This ties in with the viewpoint, as the right way of looking at something can change your will to accomplish it, but it deserves its own slot in this list. Motivation is more than simply telling your mirror that you're going to get your ex back. It's about getting up and doing what it takes to achieve your goal! To get your ex back will require some serious finesse, a lot of care, and a lot of work addressing your main relationship-based problems. Some of the problems that can fragment relationships can be really tough to overcome, but if you're serious about getting your ex back you have to put in the effort to do so. Motivation is key...if don't have the drive to pursue what you want, somebody else will probably get it instead.

3) Last thing I'm going to cover is how aggressively you pursue your ex. Getting your ex back is a delicate process, and rushing things too aggressively will only succeed in pushing your ex further away. Obviously that's not what you're after, so taking some care in how forward and pushy you are about things is definitely advised. Your ex is probably going to still be hurting after the breakup, and wary of the things that ended the relationship still being there to hurt him/her again. You have move at whatever pace your ex is comfortable with, or else you're just going to put the nails in the coffin of your relationship. Keep things light and simple until your ex is clearly ready. It's not an easy thing to try to get your ex back. It usually requires a lot of work and sacrifice, but if your ex means that much to you I probably don't have to give you some inspiring speech to pump your motivation...I imagine that your love for the person and the agony of the separation is probably enough for you. All I can do is wish you luck, and hope that you remember what I've told you today.




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