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Cheat...and not get caught

2009-04-16T23:12:00.000-07:00

Cheating on a signifgant other, and not getting caught can sometimes be a very hard thing to do, but use these tips and you may have a better chance of getting away with it.

First if you are planning to go out with that new special someone who has caught your eye, always have an Alibi for the night, and always make sure to let your Alibi know that you are using them and what the plan is for the night. Example: "Honey, John and I are going to play some basketball tonight".

When you leave the house make sure you are dressed to go play basketall, make sure you have taken a shower earlier in the day, and gotten your change of clothes for your actual date already set aside in your car.

When you are out on your date make sure you call to check in with your significant other at least once during the duration of your outing as to not raise any suspicion.

when the date is over, before returning back home stop off change back in to your original outfit, make sure to check for lipstick or any other evidence of wrong doing. Check in with your alibi to make sure nothing strange has happened that might make your story unbelievable . Ex: Friend saw signafant other at store during time that you should of been with them.

Be Smart, don't say your going to place or doing things that you would not normally do, or go.

Be a good neighbor

2009-04-15T21:17:00.000-07:00

Being a nice neighbor is not easy. Most especially if your neighbor is annoying. They do stuff that hates your guts. You just cannot accept them as your friend. How would you deal with that kind of situation? You might say that you don't care but being good to our neighbor pays a lot. It does not meant that you have to pretend of being nice so that they will give you something ,but it is not that way. Meant by pays a lot is when you are in trouble majority of help is from our neighbors. You can easily shout or scream for help if needed.

You have to think the good side of being a good person to your neighbor. Do not focus of the things that you hate most against them. It will not help you at all. Annoying neighbor can be very difficult to communicate and they often ignored your presents but you have to be patient and friendly to them. They will realized later that their actions does not bother you at all and they will feel more comfortable talking with you. See , when your neighbor feels like you hate what they do ,they will always do something that you hate the most. But ignoring them will creates a mutual understanding between your annoying neighbor and your family. Weird neighbor can be very annoying too but the problems is not only with them it can be you.

Be good to your neighbor even if they are annoying.
Do not focus the negative side of your neighbor's life. Treat them as your family by simply recognizing their presents.
Be patient all the times. Being a good neighbor takes a lot of patients to accept their actions. It can be very intimidating to hear loud noise or voices from them but be considerate to them.

Make Friends As aesy A,B,C

2009-04-12T23:47:00.000-07:00

in this guide i will shoy you how to easily make friends, primarily pointed at high schoolers and younger audiences, but i guess it would work for anyone.

Things You’ll Need:

a good fun personality
at least one friend already made
a large selection of potential pals
good humor

Day 1: walk around the campus with your friends(s) just to get a feel of the place

Day 2: start a conversation with someone, this may seem hard but just find a random person, and say something like "nice shoes!" or "have a nice day" ive even made friends by standing at the gates to schoo, with a friend and saying "welcome to school have a nice day" some people will talk, others wont, these things dont happen overnight give it time .

Days 3 and on: keep in touch with the friend, talk about their interests, (i.e music, tv, movies etc) but dont ask anything to personal, or you'll sound creepy. HAVE FUN .

But remember

dress nice, try not to smell, look friendly, dont stare, make eye contact
if you say something creepy, you might get hit

How to Break up With Your Girlfreind

2009-04-08T23:16:00.000-07:00

There may come a time in your life when your relationship with your girlfriend turns sour. If you are reading this, it probably already has. Breaking up with your girlfriend is a tough decision and is not to be taken lightly. You need to make sure it is something you really want to do. If you are at the end of your rope and you don’t think you can salvage the relationship, it is time to cut your losses and move on. Follow these steps to learn how to breakup with your girlfriend.

Know not to tell your friends first. If you tell your friends that you are unhappy in your relationship and are going to breakup with your girlfriend, she will no doubt find out before you tell her. This would be unfair to her and create unneeded tension between the two of you; any tension you can save will be better in the long run

Find the right day to breakup. Every woman is different, some would prefer the relationship to end right before the weekend so they can go out with their friends and get over it. Others however prefer an early week breakup so they can try to forget about it over the workweek. You should know your girlfriend well enough to decide which would be best for her.

Make sure you breakup in a neutral spot. To reduce how awkward the breakup will be, it is a good idea not to do it at your apartment. Public places such as parks and restaurants are good choices because they allow your soon to be ex-girlfriend a chance to leave whenever she wants without feeling overly embarrassed.

Breakup face to face. A personal breakup will not only drive the point home better, it also shows a level of maturity on your part. It is probably the hardest way to end a relationship, but it better allows the two of you to remain friends because of the respect it shows for your ex-girlfriend.

Explain your decision. She deserves to know why you are ending the relationship. Make sure to be thorough enough to leave any doubts out of her mind, but make sure that you don’t go into too much detail.

Make sure you stick to your guns. You have obviously put a lot of thought into your decision to breakup with your girlfriend, so you need to make sure to stand by your decision. There may be tears shed on both sides, but that is no excuse to restart a failed relationship.

Manage Upset In Your Life

2008-03-31T00:35:00.000-07:00

Ever found yourself in a situation where you are blindsided by someone's bad behavior and are suddenly thrown into a downward spiral? Or maybe you are guilty of bad behavior and want to run and hide! Perhaps an unfortunate or frustrating event occurs unexpectedly. This type of thing happens to all of us at one time or another and there are ways through it. There seem to be three basic types of upsets from which all our upsets stem: Unfulfilled Expectations, Thwarted Intentions, and Undelivered Communications. Simply knowing about these upsets and being able to recognize them are powerful tools.

We must realize we're in such a situation by recognizing it for what it is: a common upset between two people or a typical unfortunate or frustrating circumstance we experience. These are a normal part of life that we don't need to resist. They will happen!

Be willing to pause and take a breath before doing or saying anything, in order to decide which type of upset this is, so that you can focus on the best approach. By doing this you can, to a certain degree, immediately diffuse the situation.

If it's an upset with someone you love or need to stay in relationship with, and you find yourself physically shaking, you can tell them that you need time to think about it and will get back to them. Then walk away temporarily to avoid further upset. When you feel strong enough, you can tell them you're sorry they feel that way and ask them what they think they need to resolve the situation, even if you feel they're wrong. The goal is to stay in communcation and work though the issue. We all need someone to simply listen to us when we're upset.

If you're in a frustrating circumstance, like waiting in line at the DMV or having a misunderstanding with someone in person or on the phone, the first thing to remember is whoever you're talking to is usually not the actual problem, so there's no need to yell at them! This is where the breathing and calm demeanor come in handy. Keep calmly asking questions to get all the info and then make the best decision possible. Often there's more than one opportunity to set things right.

Always try to focus on the positive aspects of every situation so that the negatives won't take over. Upsets are very common so there's no need to get completely overwrought and hopeless. Try to find the humor in every situation!

Date With Your Friend's Roommate

2008-03-28T21:53:00.000-07:00

One of the most exciting times is when one of your friends gets a new roommate. It's a chance to meet somebody new, and it's an easy way to possibly meet somebody to date. Read on to learn how to date your friend's roommate.

Consider your relationship with the friend. Is it solid or is it dicey? If it's solid, then you shouldn't worry about asking the roommate out. If it's dicey, you might want to be careful.

Make sure you like this person before you ask them out. This is the advantage to this situation because you get to hang with the person a bunch before you start to date.

If you decide that you like the person enough to ask out, then make sure you ask the friend first. It's common courtesy, and also they might be able to help.

Don't flaunt your relationship in front of your friend. Act like you did when you guys were just hanging out before you started dating. The last thing you need is an annoyed friend who lives with the person you are dating, because they can easily take you down.

If you must break up, no matter how hard it might be, try to do it as nice as possible. Try to stay friends after, or at least let the person know you want to be friends. You don't want to create an ugly situation. Also, give it time before you come over and visit, but not too much time. You still want to establish that it's fine for you to come over and hang out without it being awkward.

Warning!!

Don't brag about the person to your friend.

How To Get Hottie

2008-03-27T18:17:00.001-07:00

How do you attract the most desirable, attractive and interesting women around? It must take a hell of a lot of money, muscles and bragging to attract these types of girls, you say? Nope, not at all. You just need to know the secrets and dirty tricks hidden from most men.

Here’s how it all breaks down:

Most guys want a beautiful, intelligent and interesting woman as their girlfriend. Others just want to have sex with a hottie but that’s exactly the same thing. If you want GET one, you need to know the dos and don’ts

So I am going to list the most important rules to make this as simple as I can:
First, if you are NICE to her or tell her how beautiful she looks, she will just ignore you. Every guy does that, and if you want to be like every man that wanted to pick her up or she has dated in the past, you won’t go very far.

Think about it. What chances do you have if you do what everyone else does? You wouldn’t be very different? That’s why you don’t offer an attractive woman a drink. You really don’t want to be the 17th guy the same night who wants to buy her a drink, really.

Second, don’t let her know that you are hitting on her. If she sees that you are just talking to her because you just want her number and date her, it’s over. That’s what she gets day in day out: Clingy and needy guys.

If you want to get somewhere, you have to keep her on her toes, play a bit hard to get and be a challenge. If she sees that you are nice to her and tell her that she has a very beautiful smile, then she won’t get sexually attracted to you. If you act needy, clingy or buy her a drink to get her number, she will get annoyed at you because you are just like every other guy.

Third, if you aren’t sure of yourself and come off as insecure … then she will walk all over you. If you act nervous, are shaking in her presence and mumble … let me tell you she will not think you are sexy. Women don’t think it’s cute like the media tells you. They will think that you are nice and it was a nice try but they won’t think you’re right for her. You got to be strong and confident here otherwise she will just turn her back on you.

Fourth, don’t back down if she gives you a little attitude like “why are you talking to me? Don’t you have any friends? Go away”. Remember it’s a test to get rid of all the wimps and nice-guys that will just waste her time. She knows if she acts a bit cold and like a bitch, all those guys she doesn’t want will leave her alone right there. Hold your ground and chip away on her confidence by telling her “aww you are so cute, you remind me of my little bratty sister” … that will disarm her attitude within an instant.

So next time you want to chat up a real hottie, you got to use a different approach. Try this:
When she is near you, say “HEY!” … to make her turn around and get your attention. Then say “You know what … you really SUCK! [pause] … you just walked by and didn’t even smile/say hi”.

That’s your way in. Keep teasing and busting her balls until she asks you for your name. Remember, they are hotties…so you got to play a stronger game to get them!

Stop Using This Stupid Trick Now!

2008-03-25T19:53:00.000-07:00

You see, somewhere out there on the Internet is a site
that teaches guys to print business cards with their contact
info on them and to hand them out to women at clubs, bars,
and shopping malls.

Sounds tacky, eh? Unfortuantely there are MANY guys
on my list that have actually tried this method and failed
MISERABLY. Just this week, another guy emailed me to tell me
how he has handed out 45 business cards to different women
about 2 weeks ago...and hasn't gotten a single response yet.

I am going to tell this to EVERYBODY now. This silly
trick does NOT work. It will NEVER work - unless you get
really lucky - because it is:

1) WIMPY - Admit it. You're only doing this because
you're afraid of closing for numbers.

2) WEIRD - Think about it. Does hanging out business
cards to random strangers sound like a normal person would
do?

3) UNREALISTIC: Do you seriously think that women
will phone a stranger they don't even know?

Trust me. If you try this trick, your cards are just
going to get THROWN AWAY. Or better yet, you might get what one
of my readers got about two years ago. He handed out over 200
business cards at the Welcome Dance on his campus for all
the first year students, and about a week later he started
getting phone calls from GAY GUYS who wanted to hookup with
him. Apparently some funny guy had gotten hold of one of
his business cards and written his contact info on bathroom
walls all over campus with the following message, "BJ?
Call XXXXXX at XXX-XXXX."

I laughed when I heard this story...but really...it's
quite sad.

Listen. I don't care how desperate you are. But
PLEASE use your head and be careful about these types of
techniques. Before you try something from a newsletter or
ebook, think about its merits. (No, I am not slamming myself.
If I were full of BS, I wouldn't be able to send you
a fresh, original article on this newsletter every 2 days.)
If you do come across a technique that you doubt, feel free
to send it over and I will take a look. Just try to keep
your email short as I do receive a lot of emails everyday!
But don't blindly do anything stupid such as handing out
200 business cards to random strangers at a club.

Find Love In 2008

2008-03-24T00:32:00.000-07:00

Where does one go to find love? It all depends on what love means to you. Love can mean a feeling you feel when eating a decadent chocolate dessert so rich in flavor that words could never express a love for such an incredibly delicious tasty treat or it could mean an undying affection for someone who is yet to find out that their very presence causes heart palpitations that never seem to end when they walk by. Love is all around us and yet some are still seeking to find it. Maybe it is like that pot of gold at the end of every rainbow, knowingly availably but never realistically obtainable or it may be within reach, close by, next door or right beside us. No matter where love is found, the end result should only be the beginning to a happier and more fulfilled life. No one should be without it.

There are no steps to go through in finding love and there is no time frame in finding it. However, when searching to find what mankind has longed to have and hold forever unto eternity, it is best found from first looking within. Before setting out on a quest to find where love resides, think about what would make someone love you!

You might think you know what love is and you might have an inclination where to find it because you overheard the other day that there is a new love in town. But, before you go out to love and conquer, take time to find out first what love is. Once you understand better what it is, then finding it will make it a whole

Love can be a flower, a book, a place, a feeling, a smell a taste a beautiful picture or a culmination of several things. Love can be a song, a child, a color, an animal or a cloud that takes shape in the sky. Love is different for everyone and sometimes love is far away. Love can laugh and love can cry and love can be in every day. But, no matter where love lives, when it is found, it will never go away.

The best place to find love is deep within. Who knows, love might just find you!

Not Be A Nice Guy

2008-03-22T00:26:00.000-07:00

As we all know, the phrase “nice guy” has a vastly different meaning in dating than it does in the real world. Real-world “nice guys” help old ladies across the street, lend neighbors their power tools, and treat friends to dinner, while dating “nice guys” are routinely dumped (“You’re a nice guy, Harold, but it’s just not working for me.”) or heard loudly defending themselves in bars (“I’m a nice guy, aren’t I? I guess she wants to date someone who treats her badly.”). Here’s how not to be so “nice” in your next relationship.

Know your terminology. “Nice” is a vague, innocuous-sounding word that covers a vast territory. A woman is unlikely to say “I’m sorry, Jason, but if I wanted to date someone who can explain the difference between arugula and radicchio I’d have lunch with my girlfriend” when she can just issue a vague “You’re a nice guy, Jason, but…” In other words, “nice” can mean all sorts of things, ranging from “wimpy” to “indecisive” to “not very exciting you-know-where.”

Examine your behavior. Once you have some inkling what part of the broad bandwidth of your behavior the word “nice” applies to, do some introspection and choose a better word. Are you too passive when it comes to making the first move? Do you agree with everything your date says, for fear of getting into an argument? Are you so careful about what you say, you never say anything interesting?

Try to change—but not what’s genuinely “nice.” Everyone has something nice about them; perhaps it’s your sense of humor, or the way you interact with kids. Leave these nice things alone. But if you sense your date is using the word “nice” to mean any of the things in Step 2, it may be time to reassess your dating style. Yes, women like nice guys, but they also like guys with personalities who are capable of occasionally asserting themselves

Don’t fool yourself. If you’ve ever emitted that “But I’m a nice guy!” complaint, it’s time to realistically assess your situation. Most women do not want to date someone who mistreats them, so if you think the choice comes down to your “nice guy” self and some troglodytic wife-beater, you have bigger problems than finding a date. In other words, take responsibility for your own actions, and don't blame the women who find you uninteresting.

Get Your ex girlfriend back

2008-03-20T00:24:00.000-07:00

When the person you love breaks up with you, often you aren't exactly satisfied with that situation. Most of us in that position would love nothing more than to fix whatever was broken and heal the relationship...but few of us do. Why? The answer may surprise you. There are a number of factors that all contribute to whether or not you're successful in your campaign to get your ex back. I'm going to list the 3 biggest ones, with a brief explanation of each, so that you may understand exactly how you need to approach the goal of reuniting with your ex.

1) The first point I'll cover is your Viewpoint. How you look at the relationship, its end, and your aim to rebuild it makes all the difference. If you look at yourself as a victim, whether it be of your ex's unfairness or your own relationship-fatal mistakes, you'll never find the strength to rise above and succeed in winning back your ex. It's important to understand that mistakes can be made by anyone, and feeling sorry for yourself or mad at your ex won't help you any. Look at this breakup as an opportunity for learning and self-betterment. If you can fix the biggest problems in your relationship, that relationship will be so much more positive, and you'll be so much happier. Use this as a springboard to renovate yourself and your life.

2) Another big factor is motivation. This ties in with the viewpoint, as the right way of looking at something can change your will to accomplish it, but it deserves its own slot in this list. Motivation is more than simply telling your mirror that you're going to get your ex back. It's about getting up and doing what it takes to achieve your goal! To get your ex back will require some serious finesse, a lot of care, and a lot of work addressing your main relationship-based problems. Some of the problems that can fragment relationships can be really tough to overcome, but if you're serious about getting your ex back you have to put in the effort to do so. Motivation is key...if don't have the drive to pursue what you want, somebody else will probably get it instead.

3) Last thing I'm going to cover is how aggressively you pursue your ex. Getting your ex back is a delicate process, and rushing things too aggressively will only succeed in pushing your ex further away. Obviously that's not what you're after, so taking some care in how forward and pushy you are about things is definitely advised. Your ex is probably going to still be hurting after the breakup, and wary of the things that ended the relationship still being there to hurt him/her again. You have move at whatever pace your ex is comfortable with, or else you're just going to put the nails in the coffin of your relationship. Keep things light and simple until your ex is clearly ready. It's not an easy thing to try to get your ex back. It usually requires a lot of work and sacrifice, but if your ex means that much to you I probably don't have to give you some inspiring speech to pump your motivation...I imagine that your love for the person and the agony of the separation is probably enough for you. All I can do is wish you luck, and hope that you remember what I've told you today.

Warm Your Wife's Heart

2008-03-18T00:10:00.000-07:00

Hey guys, warm your wife's heart in the little ways.

Here it's goes:

-Buy your wife a fresh bouquet of roses.

-Buy a matching fake rose.

-Slide the fake rose into the bouquet of real roses.

-Tell your wife this. "I will love you until the last rose dies." She won't know what you did and she will think your being a nut for a while but it's worth it in the end.

-But don't tell her what you did! Let her find out on her own. She will wonder why they all dried up and died and one lived, she'll remember what you said and before she notices its fake she'll think you pulled a miracle. This is just one way to warm her heart. Doing hidden things like this is what I love about relationships.

Watch your Face Right!

2008-03-16T00:06:00.000-07:00

This is an easy, simple guide to keeping your face clean! So safe you can (and should) do it daily! Please comment if you would like more specific beauty advice. There are so many things you can do AT HOME to look years younger, or to keep up your already youthful appearance.

Once the water warms, use your hands to get your face damp. Put a portion of your cleanser in the palm of your hand, and start washing your face. Start with small circles on your cheeks and work around until you have covered your whole face.

RINSE!! Using a sponge, warm water, and circular motions remove all of the cleanser from your face, ears and neck (if it is there). I like to rinse twice, just to make sure all of the cleanser is removed.

Pat dry with towel. Apply Moisturizer with SPF and let sit at least 2 minutes before applying makeup.

That's it. This can be done before bed or in the morning. If you're not cleansing your face before bed you still need to remove your makeup. Sleeping in makeup will age you faster than you think!!

Cure Pimple With Herbs

2008-03-14T00:00:00.000-07:00

The sebum and dead cells clogging the pores on the skin cause pimples. Over-the-counter medications do not work the same way for each person and it can be expensive to try new products in the market. Here are some purse-friendly ways to fix pimples using herbs and ingredients from the kitchen without any side effects.

Instruction

Things You'll Need:

Mint leaves
Lemon juice
Turmeric
Tomato juice
Garlic
Yogurt
Sandalwood powder
Rosewater
Apple

Step 1:Grind a handful of fresh mint leaves with a few drops of lemon juice and turmeric powder. Apply this paste on the pimples and let it dry. Wash it off with water. Turmeric has an antibacterial property that kills germs and the lemon juice controls the sebum balance on the skin.

Step 2:Apply tomato juice on the pimples if you have dry skin. Take a few tomatoes, puree them, pour them in an ice cube tray and freeze. Gently, rub this cube each day on pimple prone areas.

Step 3:Crush finely a few pods of garlic then add 2 drops of honey and some yogurt to make a paste. Apply the paste to the pimples but expect a slight tingling sensation. After it drys, wash it gently without scrubbing. Remember to use the paste only on the pimples, as the acidity in the garlic stings normal skin.

Step 4:Make a paste of sandalwood powder and rosewater. Apply this paste on the affected area overnight and wash it in the morning. Sandalwood lessens irritation thereby reducing swelling.

Step 5:Take an apple, peel and grate it to extract the juice. Add 1 tsp. of honey and dab gently on the pimples. Repeat this treatment at least twice a day to dry the pimple.

Enjoy The Beach!

2008-03-11T23:54:00.000-07:00

The beach can provide all kinds of activities from intense sports like volleyball and surfing, to the calm sound of crashing waves and a comfortable chair. Nothing ruins a day on the beach faster than being unprepared. Here's how to get the most out of your day on the beach.

Find the right beach. If you are looking for a relaxing getaway, you may not want to be on a beach in the middle of spring break central. Look for locations that offer exactly what you're looking for.

Make sure the weather is right. The worst thing that can happen on your day at the beach is a tropical storm rolling through your sunny day. Check the weather before you leave your home or hotel before you leave so you don't meet any surprises once you have reached the sand. Check the temperature, wind and tides.

Follow your natural tendencies. Are you a day person or a night person? Do you like shade or sun? Are you low energy or high energy? Find the beach that offers the most for your needs. If the thought of wind surfing makes you queasy, don't bother. If you know you don't wake up until noon, don't plan a morning trip.

Check for rental sites for your beach and make sure they deliver. Everybody needs a place to sit down and get out of the sun, and you can minimize headache by having less to drag from your car. Beaches often offer rental chairs and umbrellas for a fee, and will often set them up for you upon arrival. The same goes for equipment, food and drinks. Keep it simple and you'll have a great time.

A Complete Way To Write a Resume

2008-03-10T23:51:00.000-07:00

Want to write a winning resume? Here's what you need to do.

Be Concise - There is a fine line between detailed and boring when it comes to resumes. If you take to long to tell your story, it will not get read. Job hunting is a sales process.

Do Include Multiple Contact Info - Your home phone, cell, work phone and email address should be on the resume as well as your mailing address. Regarding employers, list names, city and state as well as dates of when you worked there. You may use years alone as in “2002-2007”, but be consistent throughout the document.

Be Specific - Talk about your accomplishments in very specific terms. The same goes for skills. What computer software are you familiar with in detail and any industry specific software. How much gross profit margin did your store increase by since you started work. People do not want a task list, they want to know what you have accomplished.

Be Neat - Yes, everything counts including spelling, formatting and writing style. Make sure your document is flawless, or you could be rejected because you appear to be careless.

Be Honest - You want to give your best impression but be careful not to over-embellish. Never say anything on a resume that is not entirely true. If you are close to getting your degree, you can say you are a B.S. degree candidate and give a date when you expect to finish your program. Do not include reasons for leaving your jobs on the resume, save that for the interview.

include an Objective - Include a brief line or two on your overall objective for the future of your career but you may need to adjust it to suit the job you are currently applying for. Make your objective realistic and as open ended as possible, without being vague. Follow these principles and you will find will find the job of your dreams given time, persistent effort and appropriate follow up.

Plan Your Financial Future

2008-03-07T23:47:00.000-08:00

Here’s how it should be done: If you’re a high net worth individual with a complex financial situation, you probably need a highly specialized fee-based financial planner (but you probably already have one, so I’m not writing this for you). If you’re among the rest of us, find an independent advisor from a trustworthy source. (An independent advisor is one who can offer many products from many companies, and who has no assigned sales quotas.) A referral from a trusted friend or relative usually works best. Don’t concern yourself with credentials. While education and training are certainly important, demonstrated loyalty and integrity are much more critical. If the advisor has done well by someone you trust, he’ll probably do alright by you too.

The advisor’s objective in your initial meeting is to establish a sense of trust. Consider carefully how he goes about this. Is he confident? Does he seem to know what he’s talking about? Does he care about helping me, or just reeling me in? Is he trying to offer me a solution before he’s had an opportunity to understand the problem? Is he flashing around titles and credentials as if that’s all I should need to know about him?

Be informed about the topics discussed. Read a book. E-mail Suze Orman (unless, it’s an insurance question – doesn’t appear to be her forte). Subscribe to the Motley Fool website. Talk to your parents or someone else savvy. If necessary, see a fee-based advisor for a second opinion.

Finally, do something! Rarely is the result of implementing mediocre advice worse than the consequences of inaction and procrastination. Also, do your business with the guy who devised your plan. He worked hard and deserves to get paid for it. If you choose to also visit a fee-based advisor, and he recommends something else, he’s earned his fee. Your original guy has still earned the right to implement any solution. And if you feel he’s done a good job for you, you also owe him the names and contact information of your closest dozen or so friends and relatives.

Behave During A Divorce

2008-03-05T23:43:00.000-08:00

You rarely hear of a divorce that ends happily. It is a difficult time for everyone that has to be seen through to the end. If you are upset about your pending divorce, there are some things you should not do. It is crucial to keep your anger in check.

Move away from your spouse to avoid conflicts or have your spouse move out. Begin searching for a new place to stay and begin getting used to living without him. It will be less stressful than being together in the same space.

Do not stalk your future ex-mate. It is often times difficult to sever the relationship binds that tied you together, but do not let the idea of not being able to let go become an obsession.

Stay out of their new love life. It may be hard to see your ex-lover with another person. For this reason, it is best to avoid seeing them at all. Stay busy and do not allow yourself to get depressed or stay angry.

Go on a vacation. The stress of a divorce is comparable to that of a death of a loved one or losing a job. It can cause you to do things you will regret. Getting away from it all, somewhere your ex won't be--or anyone else you know, is sometimes a good idea.

Let go of resentment and forgive. Forgiveness is for your benefit. To forgive, be willing to feel your hurt. Your ex-mate is most likely doing the best she can with her limited ability. Forgive him for his weaknesses.

Move on. To help you get over your ex and focus on yourself, reach out to friends and consider dating. You may find someone who relates well to you, and who will help you realize you can move on with your life.

Keep Teeth With Naturally

2008-03-03T01:58:00.000-08:00

There are many effective methods of teeth whitening available, but some come with heavy price tags. Here are some steps you can take at home to whiten teeth naturally without breaking the bank.

Limit your consumption of drinks that stain tooth enamel. A few of these include coffee, tea and red wine. If you simply can't cut back on these beverages, consider drinking them though a straw to limit the amount of liquid that actually comes in contact with teeth.

Brush your teeth immediately after eating, especially if eating foods that stain easily, such as berries.

Rub raw strawberries on your teeth, preferably pureed. There is an enzyme in strawberries that acts as a whitening agent. You'll want to brush and rinse after applying the strawberries to remove the natural sugars and acids they may leave behind.

Eat crunchy foods that require a lot of chewing such as carrots, celery, broccoli and apples. These foods are abrasive and will remove built up plaque, which dulls the appearance of teeth.

Dip your toothbrush directly into baking soda and brush. The results are worth the lousy taste.

Combine lemon juice and one teaspoon of salt to make a paste-like substance. Brush your teeth and rinse. Again, not so pleasant on the palate, but your teeth will thank you.

Use hydrogen peroxide to brush your teeth. Dip your toothbrush into a small capful of the peroxide and brush as you would with regular toothpaste, being careful not to swallow. Rinse with water

Improve Your Pool Game

2008-03-01T01:54:00.000-08:00

Skilled pool players have an annoying habit of making the game look easy. The following steps will help you overcome the most common challenge in pool--handling very long shots where the smallest error will result in a wide miss.

Use your cue stick as a sight by placing the tip of the cue stick in the target pocket. Align the stick across the middle of the ball you intend to sink. The stick now traces a line through the ball to the pocket. Where this line (your stick) crosses the outer edge of the ball is the point where you want to hit it with the cue ball.

After you are in position and have lined up the shot, don't look at the target ball, look at the cue ball. Strike the cue ball with your stick slightly below the center line.

Keep your shooting arm close to your body and your elbow bent at 90 degrees. The shooting movement should come from your shoulder. Use only enough force to make the shot. Additional power is not necessary and can disrupt your aim.

Keep a Woman Interested

2008-02-27T01:51:00.000-08:00

When you have found a woman you are interested in keeping, you know it because you're concerned with things like how long you should wait to call her in addition to the obvious attraction factor. You must work to keep her from moving on, and here are some ways to keep the attraction flowing between the two of you.

Be self-confident. Being a secure man boosts her attraction to you as long as you are confident without being egotistical. Women like a man who is confident in himself.

Keep her guessing. This helps prevent her from becoming complacent and taking you for granted. Women do not want a man who is at available at their every whim. Pull her in, and then push her away just a little periodically to keep things interesting.

Compliment her regularly, but in a way which is not predictable. You want to be careful not to give her the same "you look great today" statement every time you see her because it won't mean as much to her. Instead, be creative with what you say and how you say it and be sincere.

Continue having your own life. Do things with your friends from time to time without her. There are times to include her in doing things with your friends, but a little space will cause a harmonious balance in both of your lives, and your woman will stay interested if you are not clinging to her. This will leave her wanting more, and she will appreciate the time she does have with you

Be an imaginative and romantic lover. Seduce your woman with romantic surprises both small (flowers for no reason) and large (a romantic trip) from time to time.

Take care of yourself. Dress, eat and exercise well. Everyone desires to be with someone attractive, and this will help your woman remain attracted to you.

Listen to her. Pay attention and ask questions so she feels appreciated. Be aware, women like to vent when discussing troubles and this doesn't necessarily mean she is looking for advice on what to do. Only offer solutions when she asks.

Sleep With Your Partner

2008-02-25T01:45:00.000-08:00

For those of you looking for sex advice, this is the wrong article. However, if you share a bed with your significant other, feel free to read on. Getting enough rest is essential for physical and emotional well-being, but sharing a bed can make it difficult for some couples.

First, realize that if you have a queen-size or smaller mattress, you each have less space of your own than if you each occupied a twin-sized bed. Sharing so much of your personal space can be quite cozy and intimate, but problems can arise if you're not careful. Make sure you are clean and have brushed your teeth before turning in. Few things are more unpleasant than waking up with someone's rancid breath, or, even worse, a smelly armpit right in your face.

The room should not be so cold that you're shivering, but it shouldn't be so hot you break a sweat, either. Because we're all a little different, it's quite possible that you and your partner will be comfortable at different temperatures. Compromise! It is better to err on the too-chilly side, because you can always add more blankets, but if your partner's already naked and covered only with a sheet, there's not much else he can do to cool down.

DO NOT hog the blankets. It's particularly discourteous to tuck one end under your body and roll, so that the entire blanket is wrapped around you burrito-style. If you or yours is a blanket-hog, get a bigger blanket! Or, if you're both short and no one's feet will poke out the bottom, turn the blanket so it lies sideways across the bed. The extra length at the sides will ensure you're both perfectly covered. If all else fails, each of you should have a separate blanket. It's less intimate than sharing covers, but still better than freezing or sleeping in different beds.

Control your gas. Of course, an occasional slip-up is fine- you are, after all, close enough to be sharing a bed! However, if you are a habitual offender, or if your emissions are real scorchers (or deafeningly loud), it's worth taking a look at your diet. Eliminate foods that cause gas, or, at the very least, eat them earlier in the day. Try a product like Beano if that doesn't work. A friend of mine once told me he likes to hold his wife under the covers and "let one rip." This is UNACCEPTABLE. Do not do it, unless you want her to divorce you and take everything.

If you read before going to sleep, turn off the light when you are done. Each partner should have a separate bedside lamp, because they are less disruptive than the overhead light. Try not to watch T.V. in the bedroom. If you must, headphones are a good option to avoid disrupting your partner. Set the sleep timer so the T.V. will go off if you fall asleep.

If your dreams cause to become very active, try to relax before bed. A hot bath or a cup of caffeine-free tea might be just what your brain needs to calm down.

How to Trust After Been Cheated

2008-02-24T01:34:00.000-08:00

How to trust again after been cheated on in the past.

Every, relationship put dents in our hearts and we tend to hold on to them in future relationships. The first step is forgiveness. Forgive the mate that cheated in the past. Not face to face but mentally. Let that hurt go.(suggestion throw in the air our lord will get it and leave it up to our lord.)

Give your new mate the benefit of doubt. Don't accuse them of stuff even if the situation is similar to a past situation. Trust them until you have a reason not too. A in your face reason.

Thank your past mate who hurt you in the past for the experience and teaching you and take that lesson as a stepping stone to finding the mate of your dreams.

Long Distance Relationship

2008-02-22T01:30:00.000-08:00

You and your Internet Valentine are becoming a hot item, but are you ready to take the next step in your long distance relationship? Here's how to find out if you are ready for the next level.

You and your Internet Valentine have been talking for awhile, and you both think it's time to meet in person. Take a deep breath. The decision to meet in person is very important, but make sure you do not put so much importance on the success of the first meeting that you become awkward and uncomfortable.

Choose one or more activities that will allow you both to have fun and be able to talk freely. Playing billiards together, bowling, biking, hiking, playing golf or miniature golf, wall climbing, dancing, attending an outdoor concert or fireworks display, skating, or an outdoor picnic are all good ideas for a first date. Having something to do takes away some of the pressure you or your Valentine might feel

Be sure to pick a day when you are both well rested. Nothing can spoil a date like having one or the other so tired from overwork that he is yawning his way through the first date. Take cues from your Valentine about whether or not he is enjoying the activity.

Listen to your date. Make mental notes when she talks about her likes and dislikes. Be honest if you don't enjoy a suggested activity.

How to Get Rich Slowly

2008-02-20T01:25:00.000-08:00

Tired of get-rich-quick schemes that never work? Sick of hearing hype about how you can earn millions while you sleep? Tempted to play the lottery? Let's get real. For the vast majority of America's millionaires, it did not happen overnight. The first-generation wealthy in this country know that to succeed, you have to work hard, make sacrifices, and be smart with your money. Here are some ideas to help you learn how to get rich slowly.

Learn to budget. Each month, spend your money on paper before you spend a dollar out of your accounts. You'll learn how to get rich slowly if you know where all your money is going and allot categories for saving and investing in addition to living expenses.

Avoid credit cards and excessive debt. Credit cards can lead to a spiral of debt. Avoid that by never opening credit cards and paying off (and then closing) any open credit accounts you have. Save up enough of an emergency fund where you can feel secure without a credit card in your wallet.

Live on less than what you earn. This simple rule by itself, if followed, will make the most difference in your finances.

Save for emergencies. Build up a liquid savings account to tap into in case of emergency situations where extra (non-budgeted) money is needed, such as accidents, health crises, income loss, etc.

Invest wisely. Look for mutual funds that spread your risk over a large number of stocks, funds and indexes. Avoid sinking all of your money into one thing. And the bottom line ... if you don't understand it, don't invest your money in it! Learn more until you know what you are doing.

Increase your income (but keep your low-cost lifestyle). A raise doesn't help you to get rich slowly if you spend it all on things you don't really need. Work hard at your job, look for promotions within your company and keep your skills sharp. Consider adding a part-time business or side job to bring in more income if needed.

Protect your assets. Cover yourself with enough liability, health and life insurance to protect your assets and family from income loss, disability, and lawsuits.

Buy bargains. Avoid paying full price whenever possible. Search used book sales, consignment shops and other sales to get the most for your money. Use grocery coupons combined with supermarket sales to get the lowest prices on food. See Resources, below, for a great coupon source.

Buy cheap Airline Tickets

2008-02-18T01:20:00.000-08:00

With a little forethought and some flexibility, you can reach your favorite destinations without breaking the bank. If you don't know anybody who works in the airline industry that can give you a hook-up, follow the advice below.

Keep yourself updated on airfare wars by watching the news and reading the newspaper. Look for limited-time promotional fares from major airlines and airline companies just starting up.

Be flexible in scheduling your flight. Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Saturdays are typically the cheapest days to fly; late-night flights ('red-eyes'), very early morning flights and flights with at least one stop tend to be discounted as well.

Ask the airline if it offers travel packages to save money in other areas. For instance, is a rental car or hotel room available at a discount along with the airline ticket?

Find out whether the stated fare is the cheapest, and inquire about other options when speaking to the airline reservations clerk. If you're using the Internet, check more than one Web site and compare rates.

Inquire about standby fares if you're flying off-season. High season is a bad time to fly standby because most airlines overbook flights, making it difficult to find a spare seat.

Purchase tickets through consolidators, who buy blocks of tickets and sell them at a discount to help an airline fill up all available seats. Check the travel section of the newspaper under 'Ticket Consolidators.'

Book early. You can purchase advance-ticket discounts by reserving 21 days ahead; book even earlier for holiday flights, especially in November and December. Keep in mind that holiday 'blackout periods' may prevent you from using frequent-flier miles.

Stay with the same airline during your entire trip to receive round-trip or connecting fare discounts.

Feed a Family on a Budget

2008-02-17T22:35:00.000-08:00

In this day and age even two income households struggle to make ends meet. With alittle effort, your family can enjoy better meals and you can save hundreds of dollars a year on food expenses.

Making and adhering to a pre-planned menu will be the basis for your savings plan. It will also ensure good quality meals that your family enjoys. Start by recording a list of meals that your family enjoys and the cost and time involved in preparation and the approximate number of servings. Select from this list according to the family budget and plan each week's menu two weeks in advance

Pot type meals such as stew, spaghetti, jambalaya, soups, goulash, etc. will likely offer the most cost effective options and may even provide for two meals. You can add salads, breads, or other side dishes to add variety and nutrition.

Purchasing foods in bulk from stores such as Costco can offer savings in the long run. Divide and freeze or store foods in usable portions.

Discount grocery stores offer many of the same or equal quality brands as main stream grocery store chains at a reduced price. Be sure to shop around and purchase items according to your upcoming menu needs. Purchasing foods on short notice will definitely cause food prices and the gas used in travel to increase.

Have dedicated days for eating out pre-planned with a budget of spending allowed. Restaurant costs add up quickly

Eat at restaurants for lunches rather than dinners if possible as costs may be more affordable. Also be sure to keep a stock of local restaurant coupons ready and available when preparing your menu plan. Often restaurants have allocated days that children eat at a reduced price or free. They also may offer specials such as all you can eat etc. on certain days.

Packing lunches will also help to save on unnecessary expenses. Make food preparation and dining a fun family event. This will help to build good family relations and make eating at home more enjoyable.

Dress your Best on The Job

2008-02-15T22:32:00.000-08:00

Looking your best at work is imperative is you want to be taken seriously and be considered for a promotion or a management level position in the future. Learn some basic tips and improve your chances for professional success.

Dress Better Than Your Colleagues - Using common sense as your guide, you can never dress too well for the office in a business or business casual environment. As a reference point, you should dress as well as or better than your supervisor, if you want to be taken seriously. Even on casual days, don’t be too casual.

Get Some Good Shoes - If you are on a tight budget, your best investment is in good leather shoes, three or more pairs, if possible. Keep them in good shape by buffing and shining them and replace as needed. Often, the better the shoes, the longer they last. Women should wear a medium heal at the office. Never wear high heels or open-toed shoes.

Interviews - If you are interviewing prospective employees or going to an interview yourself, wear a tie and jacket, or for a woman, a dress or suit with your best shoes. As a company representative, you want the job candidate to feel comfortable and dressing similarly to her will make her feel appropriately attired and more accepted.

Accessorize - Accessories can give you that flair and pizzazz you want to convey, but if overdone, can make you look foolish or brash. Stay with the classics like pearls or a single gold chain. Don’t go to work looking like a portable “bling-fest”. Tasteful choices like small earrings and a simple red scarf are appropriate at the office. Multitudes of heavy gold bullion chains and nose rings may be okay at a nightclub, but not at work.

General Advice - Never wear jeans, sweat clothes or sneakers to work even on casual days. Adding a jacket or blazer to any outfit brings it up a notch. Shop at discount stores for better brands at reasonable prices. Don’t buy rayon and other fabrics that need to be ironed. Always be clean and impeccably groomed regarding your hair, skin and fingernails. Dress like you care about your appearance and it will add significantly to your chances for success on the job.

Choose a Right Movie

2008-02-11T22:29:00.000-08:00

Going to the movies or renting in tonight? Don't know what you'll enjoy or what will entertain both you and your guests? Read on.

Consider your Audience Are you renting alone for a quiet night in, or for a six-person group? Does your date need lots of flash and glitter to stay interested or a smart, subtle plot with artistic merit? Does your romance-night buddy find George Cloony overrated, but still considers Cary Grant a dreamboat? Make sure you know your crowd before you try to please it.

Pick a Genre The safest bet for a large group is something comedic and light so that conversation and laughs can occur without missing major story points. Romantic nights in can be as versatile as weepy tear-jerkers to promote cuddling or gory slasher flicks to create an air of excitement. The same goes for twosome viewing of many varieties. Keep in mind, however, being in the mood for a costume drama, and having someone bring home a National Lampoon flick because it all falls under the broad category of "romance," can be a let-down. Make sure you narrow down your criteria so that you know what to look for.

Find out What's New Check out the latest releases to see if anything fits your criteria. That's the best way to ensure that everyone is seeing the film for the first time.

Check the Numbers Unless it's opening night, it may be helpful to check how the film you're considering did at the box office, especially if your audience loves summer blockbusters and mainstream hits. Large box office numbers mean large turnouts, which are generally inspired by pieces that promise to entertain.

Watch the Trailer Youtube.com provides access to pretty much any trailer you want to see. Watching the preview will hopefully give you a good-parts view of what's in store so that you can gage how interesting the movie looks to you, and how well it suits your crowd.

Research the Creators If you're still unsure, it might help to see what the writer or director of the piece has done previously to get an idea of his or her style. Resources like imdb.com can help you easily track down the lists of previous films by the creative controllers of the film you're considering.

Ask Around The simplest way to find a good flick could be to ask a friend with similar taste or a rental-store/theater employee what he or she recommends or what he or she thought of your prospective choice. Your opinion could always differ from someone else's, but it might save time in your evening just to ask for a recommendation.

How to Change Flat Tire

2008-02-07T22:24:00.000-08:00

Have you had a flat and had to call someone to help you? How embarrassing. Read on so you can take care of it yourself from now on.

Ok the first thing you need to do when you get a flat is pull off to the shoulder as soon as you can. When you get off the road turn on your warning lights immediately. Get out of the car on the side away from traffic. If you have a flashlight in your glove box(which you deffinatly should)get it out. Also get out your jack and your spare and tire iron. Be familiar with were all of these things are in your vehicle.

The first thing you need to do is jack the car up. Near each tire there is a metal plate up under the car on the frame or chassis. If it is a rear tire it will be just it front of it, if it is a front tire it will be just behind it. It is a small square metal plate that your jack is supposed to lock into. Place your jack under the plate right next to your flat and begin cranking the jack(this is often the most difficult part) the tire should be jack up about 4-5 inches off the ground or there abouts. REMEMBER: when the car is jacked up do not lean on it or push it or anything like that because you could push it off the jack and seriously damage your vehicle.

Now that the car is jacked up get the tire iron and twist off the rivet or bolts on the tire. IMPORTANT: do not lose these because you will need them to put the spare on. Once you have all the rivets/bolts off pull the flat off and put it in your trunk and place the spare tire on (make sure it put it on the right direction, it should only fit the right way). Now reattach the bolts/rivets with the tire iron.

Finally lower the jack back down until it can be easily removed from under the vehicle. Now put the tire iron and jack away and your done. One very important thing to remember though is that most spare tires have a recommended speed written on the tire itself which you should never exceed when driving with the spare. REMEMBER: The spare is only meant for short term use until you can get a replacement, so get it replaced ASAP.

Reduce brake fade

2008-02-03T15:21:00.000-08:00

The decrease of stopping power commonly refereed to as "brake fade" happens after repeated application of the brakes, especially when carrying heavy loads or in high-speed situations. While there is no way to eliminate brake fade all together, there are several things you can do to reduce it.

When traversing a downhill road, select a lower gear rather than applying the brakes to slow down the vehicle. In a vehicle with an automatic transmission, you should apply the brakes first before switching to a lower gear.

When braking, "tapping" the brakes, as opposed to constant application, give the brakes an opportunity to cool between applications, therefore reducing brake fade.

After replacing your brakes, try not to over-brake or put too much strain on them within the first 100-150 miles. If you can afford them, high performance brakes and rotors provide better stopping power with less brake fade due to higher-quality materials used that increases friction while decreasing the amount of concentrated heat applied to the brakes.

Choose a Right Tuxedo

2008-02-01T19:17:00.000-08:00

A great tuxedo can make anyone look great–—provided it is the right tux for their body style. How do you choose a tuxedo that suits your body type? Here are some suggestions.

First,Identify your body type.

Second,If you have a lean frame but don't have a lot of height, be sure to choose a tuxedo set with a low-button stance. Also make sure that it doesn't have more material than you need so that the tuxedo does not look too big on your frame.

Third,Are you more heavy set but not very tall? Plan to find a single-breasted tuxedo, and make sure that the tux isn't too tight.

Options

Tall and lean? If so, you're in luck: almost all tuxedos will look great on your body type.

Tall but muscular? Your best bet is to find a tuxedo with neat lines and not a lot of bulk. Just keep in mind sizing issues and make sure that the suit is well-tailored.

Yoga Practice

2008-01-29T22:13:00.000-08:00

Yoga is such a versatile form of exercise for the mind, body and spirit that it’s easy for anyone to get started. People of any age and fitness level can find benefit in a regular yoga practice.

The best way to start a yoga practice is to take a beginner’s class at a yoga studio. In fact, take classes from different places to get an idea of which style is best for you.

Familiarize yourself with the various forms of yoga. The most common ones are hatha, asthanga, anusara, Bikram, Iyengar and vinyasa. Find the styles that fit best with your philosophy and physical condition.

Purchase a yoga mat. These are sold online and at massage studios, yoga studios and some health food stores. The yoga mat is a portable rubbery performance area approximately five to six feet long.

if you are committed to a serious yoga practice, consider purchasing additional yoga props that will help you with your practice. These include yoga blocks, a strap, a bolster, blanket and perhaps an eye pillow.

If you’d like to develop a strong home-based practice, consider buying DVDs from a teacher whose teaching style you enjoy. Your local yoga studio instructor may have her own, or you can research many online and read reviews about them.

Once you’ve found a yoga studio you like, purchase a pre-paid class card. These are offered at a discount for paying up front for a bulk of classes (usually 10). They will not only save you money, but they will encourage you to go to class because they may have an expiration date.

Clear a space in your home that will be used as your space for yoga practice. If you’ll be following along with a DVD or CD, make sure you have the equipment in that room. Keep the space uncluttered, simple and distraction free.

Big and Tall Clothes

2008-01-27T22:09:00.000-08:00

Big and tall men face many challenges in their life from watching that they don't bang their head in the doorway to finding clothes that fit. Finding clothes for big and tall men that fit comfortably are stylish and reasonably priced boost a big man's confidence. Follow these steps to help find clothes that fit.

Search online catalogs such as Kingsizedirect for good deals and the right size. Some websites such as Thebigpage link several online catalogs in one place, making it easy to comparison shop.

Shop area specialty stores that carry men's clothing and shoes for big and tall men. Casual Male XL offers sizes up to size 80 in pants and 10XL in shirt sizes.

Look for a big and tall section within the men's section in well known department stores. Some department stores only have big and tall sections in certain malls or locations, so ask if another location has a big and tall section if the one nearest you doesn't.

Purchase big and tall clothes on Ebay. Remember buying clothes in a lot which is several items in one bid, saves money.

Order big and tall clothes form department stores through online catalogs. Sometimes stores offer these specialty clothes online instead of in the store.

Find Perfect Jeans for Your Body

2008-01-24T22:05:00.000-08:00

Whatever your body type, be you muffin top, hour glass, saddle bags, JLO booty, or no curves, plus size... you can find THE perfect pair of jeans for your body.

First, you need to have a little background information. Know how tall you are in inches. Also know your weight.

Go to http://www.zafu.com/

Select the tab you want to search under Jeans Plus Jeans Pants Bras

Answer a few simple questions about your body type and how most jeans fit you.

Find out what jeans will fit your best, where to buy them and how much they cost.

You go through the list and choose the ones you like.Create an account and save your results as well as your top picks for jeans.

Go shopping and celebrate how good you can look just by wearing the right type of jeans for you!

classic gentleman

2008-01-22T03:57:00.000-08:00

Being important is quite a challenge and dressing to fit the professional look can be a trying period. All you need do, is relax, massage your own head scalp for a few minutes so that ideas can flow through. You should find the clever looks from the mind, to slowly see yourself in to make the best classic look ever, for yourself.

Striped suits present the comfortable appearance. This classic style give a man of 'no risk' in mind attitude. It also suits the 'sometimes open minded' gentleman.

The polka dot detail tie adds to the classic tradition and combing your hair backwards or leaving it well shaven airs the formality you want to achieve.

The classic gentleman needs the fitting double cuff shirt with gold cufflinks in place.

Make a hanky of the breast pockets. Make sure it is visible, you don't want anything looking out of place. Always have another hanky inside of your breast pocket of suit jacket as a spare.

Recognize metrosexual

2008-01-19T03:52:00.000-08:00

Although the term "metrosexual" may be a tricky word to define, a metrosexual man can be spotted walking down the street from 20 city blocks away. The term identifies a new kind of city-dwelling male who, without giving up his claim to masculinity, enjoys doing the kind of "aesthetic" that formerly would have gotten him labeled a sissy. Fortunately for the metrosexual, the breed is multiplying, making the ability to recognize the new stylish man-type that much more important.

Check out his general appearance. If, in a quick glance, you see a man who looks as if he actually put time into his whole appearance and didn't just roll out of bed and throw on whatever dirty clothes were lying around, then you can be pretty sure you're looking at a metrosexual.

Start at the top. Following in the footsteps of the one of the world's most famous metrosexuals, soccer star David Beckham, metrosexuals are bound to put effort—actual effort—into their hairstyles. Look out for a gelled-up male hairdo that looks better than it should. Also keep an eye out for frequently changing hairstyles to recognize a metrosexual.

Spot a taste for quality. The metrosexual likes to spend money, and not on kegs, power drills and NASCAR tickets. The average metrosexual has a well-paying job at some ad agency, business consultancy or other glossy concern and likes to show it. To recognize a metrosexual's financial trail, look for the man who spends money on Armani ties and fine alcohol at the bar.

Look for the ladies. All the other guys might hate to admit it, but the metrosexual is good with the opposite sex. You can recognize a metrosexual as the guy who's doing better with women by lavishing attention on them and engaging in conversations that would leave many non-metrosexual men at a loss for words.

Read over his shoulder. If that's a men's fashion magazine, you can be pretty sure that the suspect is a metrosexual. Recognize metrosexuals by paying attention to what they read: fashion magazines, cinema reviews and culture rags.

Are You Metrosexual?

2008-01-18T03:48:00.000-08:00

Attention men! Are you a guy who carries a man bag? Do you love primping more than your wife does? Does your closet contain more than six pairs of shoes? If so, you may be a metrosexual. Although the metrosexual phenomenon is said to be on a downswing, celebrity icons such as Brad Pitt and Adrian Brody continue to grab the headlines, showing our fascination with these well-manicured gents. Follow the steps below to see if you deserve the title metrosexual

Investigate your bedroom. Does your closet take up more space than your significant other's? Is your top dresser drawer neatly arranged with designer boxers? Do you own silk pajamas, satin sheets or the latest issue of "Esquire"?

Look over your clothing. Do you frequently wear designer clothes when lounging around the house? Does your favorite outfit consist of a dress shirt with cuff links and a stylish pair of pants?

Search your bathroom. Are there bottles of cleansers, moisturizers and mask creams? Do you love apricot-scented body scrub? Mint shampoo with wheat germ? Take down or cover the mirror. Do you experience withdrawals?

Browse your checkbook. Do you spend more on pampering yourself than you do on your girlfriend? Do you see frequent hair salon, waxing and spa treatment entries?

Check out your calendar. Is it riddled with appointments regarding tanning salons, Botox injections, massages and manicures?

Ask yourself a few questions. Are grooming and working out essential parts of your daily regimen? Are most of your friends women? Do you love to shop? Are you readily able to name six menswear designers?

Dress For a First Date

2008-01-14T03:43:00.000-08:00

If clothes make the man, create the man you want to be.

Decide with your partner what tone you want to set for the event, and whether it is a formal, casual or specific event such as a swim party.

Make an honest impression and a statement about your style and attitude at a casual dinner or first date.

Pick from the classic basics unless you have a specific side of yourself to express. For most guys, that means khakis, jeans or casual dress slacks.

Choose Oxford button-down shirts in blue, white or patterns. They pair up well with most pants and are attractive without being fussy. They layer well over a T-shirt and under a sweater, too.

Show off those pecs in a knit shirt or T-shirt for comfort and versatility. Wear a dress shirt and tie, with or without a sport coat, to convey your attention to detail and your civility while still being casual.

Decide on your footwear. Athletic shoes are accepted in most places but generally oxfords, boots or loafers look better for a date. Sandals can be clean-cut, counterculture or sporty.

Wear neutral colors if you want your conversation to do the talking.Remember that personal grooming says more about you than your clothes.

Look like a Model

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Models are extremely popular in Western culture. Models are on the cutting edge of fashion and are thought to be some of the most beautiful people alive. Everyone would love to look like a model, but how? These steps reveal some of the best tricks that models use to stay gorgeous, and you can use them too.

Do what is necessary to become healthy. If you are overweight, you will need to lose those extra pounds. Begin a more rigorous exercise routine if you haven’t already. This is the most important step if you want to look like a model. Make sure you are following a healthy weight loss program

Become conscious of style. Be aware of fashion trends and the latest accessories. Thumb through some of the hot fashion magazines to get an idea of what's the rage this season, including colors and fabrics. Then incorporate what you can into your own look. If you wear the latest fashions, the eyes of the crowd are sure to be drawn to you.

Remember that fashion changes from season to season, so it's important to stay ahead of fashion. What is fashionable today may be outdated tomorrow.

Find a good hairstylist. They are always hip to new trends in both hair-care and fashion. Go regularly to keep your hair trimmed and colored in the latest styles. The beauty salons often have hair style magazines that you and yyour stylist can look through and determine which cuts and colors will flatter you best.

Purchase makeup and learn how to apply it well. Wearing makeup correctly will add to your overall look and bring an elegant look to your everyday self. Smile as much as possible. People respond positively to a smile and a good attitude will make people want to look at you.

Get out there and be seen. You can’t model form the inside of a closet. You have to show yourself off to the people around you. Go to clubs and special events so you will be noticed.

Look like David Beckham

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(David Beckham (left), you (right).

David Beckham, David Beckham, David Beckham. That's all anyone can talk about these days--especially the ladies. And guys are taking note that girls love this stylish Soccer phenom. So what's a horny guy to do if he wants to get laid? That's a no-brainer: Look exactly like David Beckham (or at least as close as you possibly can). Not sure how to get started? Don't worry about it, I'm going to tell you exactly how to get David's incredibly sexy metrosexual look.

First, let's start with the hair. When it comes to hair, Beckham is erratic: I've seen him in Bo Derek cornrows, a mohawk, a faux-hawk and a shag. For the longest time, he's been going short and bleached and lucky for you, that's affordable. All you have to do is get a pair of clippers and buzz everything off, save for a little bit of growth on the forehead area (just enough to make it stick up a bit). Then bleach everything. And there you have it, the Beckham hair cut.

Let's get it out there: the man purse. You're going to have to carry one around. Sure, it's unheard of, but look at Becks--he totes his all over West Hollywood and he's probably knee deep in vagina as you read this. The good news is, his man purses are on the slightly masculine side: canvas, Army green, distressed leather, khaki. Think of it this way, now you have a place to hide all the condoms and bottles of lube you're going to be needing once your David Beckham look takes off.

Clothing: casual. If you're going for a casual look, you're going to want to go with heavily distressed, baggy jeans--the more expensive, the better. As far as shirts go, look for feminine tank tops--the kids call 'em wife beaters--or skin tight T-shirts. You could go with a Polo shirt, but now that he lives in Los Angeles, Becks is rarely seen in anything but tank tops.

Marry a Spice Girl.

Clothing: formal. When David takes Victoria out to dinner at Il Sole or Koi, he likes to dress up like a 1920s dandy. Tight-fitting pinstripe suits, pointy leather shoes and crisp white collared shirts with a Windsor-knotted tie (unless he's slumming it, then the shirt is unbuttoned to his sternum). You might not have $10,000 for a sweet Hugo Boss suit like Becks, but you can buy something off the rack for a couple hundred, and get it tailored by a dry cleaner for $50. Just think of it: With all that money, you'll save thousands for the accessories ...

On to the accessories. David loves his diamonds. Diamond rings, diamond necklaces, diamond earrings--I bet this metrosexual even has diamond anklets. As for you, you can probably get away with just the earring. David likes to wear his diamond studs in both ears at a minimum of 5 carats each, so the bad news is you're going to have to buy one pair to pull this look off. The good news is that you can buy cubic zirconia. No one's going to know the difference and if you buy the real deal, you're going to feel like an idiot when the David Beckham craze is over and you're stuck paying off your credit card with a $10,000 balance.

And no matter what, be comfortable with your sexuality.....

Dress For a Cocktail Party-Men

2008-01-10T03:10:00.000-08:00

Cocktail parties give you a chance to mingle among friends, acquaintances, and current and potential business associates. Look sharp and dress appropriately for the occasion. If you're unsure how formal the event is you can always ask a friend who is also going and see what he plans to wear and use that as a starting point.

Consider the type of invitation. If it came by phone or e-mail, chances are the party is casual. If you received a formal invitation, and especially if the event benefits a charity or association, consider it a dressier affair.

Think about the season. Wear lighter-weight fabrics and brighter colors for spring and summer get-togethers. Stick to dark, muted tones in heavier fabrics for fall and winter gatherings.

Dress up casual business attire for a more formal after-work cocktail party. Add a blazer to khaki pants and a button-down shirt, or pair a sport coat with black jeans and a black mock turtleneck. Switch sandals or athletic shoes for dark leather loafers or lace-up shoes.

Treat cocktail parties on weekend afternoons less formally than those scheduled in the evening. Go dressy business casual for a more formal late-afternoon gathering; opt for a suit in the evening. For a less formal event, wear a nice casual outfit in the afternoon and dressier business casual clothes in the evening.

Men's Dress Shoes

2008-01-07T02:58:00.000-08:00

Buying men's dress shoes can be a confusing and tedious job for some men or their partners. There are many choices and little direction when you hate shopping or are shopping for someone difficult. However, if you remember a few tips when shopping for dress shoes, it will make the process go a little smoother than usual. Learn to buy men's dress shoes without all the guesswork.

Decide if you have to attend an occasion or you simply need shoes generally. Look at the suits and dress clothes in your closet for a good idea about what color to buy.

Then make a list of possible stores to purchase your men's dress shoes. Have an idea of how much money you are willing to spend for your purchase.

Go to your favorite department store first. Shop for at least three styles of shoes that catch your eye. Try for black shoes first.

Try on shoes a size below and a size above your normal shoe size, since dress shoes typically run bigger or smaller. Utilize a shoe horn or the assistance of a salesperson if you are having trouble getting the shoes on and off.

Take a pair of dress slacks with you or wear dress slacks when trying on your shoes. Buy the shoes that seem to match well with most of your dress clothes. In general, a loafer is always a good choice as well as a traditional lace black tuxedo shoe.

The Right Tie For a Suit

2008-01-05T02:45:00.000-08:00

You won't have to spend tons of time tracking down a high-quality tie that's the perfect finishing touch for your suit or jacket. It's easier than you think.

Buying a Quality Tie:

Select an appropriate tie length and width. Although it depends on body size and fashion trends, a length of 54 inches and a width of 3 1/4 inches is average.

Touch the tie. A quality tie will feel smooth to the touch and will consist of three, not two, pieces sewn together

Inspect the tie's lining, which provides its shape and bulk. The tie should be lined to the tips, preferably with material that has a high percentage of wool.

Tug on the slip stitch, a loose thread found in the back of the tie, beneath the two joined flaps. When pulled, the slip stitch of a well-made tie will cause the tie to gather in folds.

Sling the tie over your hands. The narrower end of the tie should lie squarely behind the middle of the wider end; ties that hang in this manner will lie flat on your chest. Avoid ties that twist when draped over your hand.

Selecting a Tie Color and Pattern:

Select the tie pattern by choosing shirt and tie patterns to complement, not compete with, each other. A subtly striped shirt can back a boldly striped tie, while a more eye-catching shirt demands a quieter tie.

Choose the tie color. Pale blue dress shirts work well with almost any tie - try one with some yellow or gold. Manipulate the monochrome look, teaming a light purple shirt with a darker purple tie.

Dating online tips

2008-01-03T08:33:00.000-08:00

Given up on the old ways of dating and decided to take the plunge in to online dating? Read more to find out how to start.

Here are some tips:

Begin by locating on online dating site you would like to sign up with. There are thousands out there so take your time.

Fill out a profile with accurate information. Consider the types of people you would or wouldn't date when filling out the sections of what you are looking for in a mate.

Add pictures! Pictures get attention from more people who would be interested. Everyone likes to know what the person they are talking to looks like.

Begin surveying your options. When you meet those you would like to go farther with and get to know more then try setting up a date in a public area. The rest is up to you!

Great Boyfriend

2008-01-01T02:24:00.000-08:00

Have you ever heard your girlfriend complain that you just don't understand her? Have you ever wished you could peek into her mind for just one minute? Then this article is for you. Being a great boyfriend is a lot easier than you think.

Never ever EVER look at other women while in the presence of your girlfriend. It's not really nice and it's just rude! Put yourself in her shoes... would you like your girlfriend staring at other guys?

Be a good listener. Girls like to talk, which means you will be great when you are a good listener. Offer relevant input to what she is saying, remember what makes her happy, what makes her sad, what her dream vacation is, and mention it to her later in conversation. It will make her swoon knowing that what she tells you is important.

Surprise her. It could be a simple flower or a weekend away. It's not the size of the gesture, but it's the gesture itself. For example, when she is sick, offer to take care of her. Make her some soup and stay by her side. Or when she gets promoted at work, take her out for drinks. Girls appreciate knowing that you thought of them enough to go out of your way to put a smile on their lips.

Think about how you wish she would go to that baseball game with you. She wants the same. Take her out somewhere she likes too! This may even motivate her to go to a sports event with you. And maybe you'll discover that a night out clubbing isn't as bad as you thought.

Ask them about their days and tell them about yours. It's a small gesture that shows you care.

This is valid for anyone in any relationship: BE HONEST. Always. This will make your relationship a mature one, in which you can connect and share things.

Curb your jealousy. It is terrible being in a relationship with someone who does not trust us. If we wanted to be with someone else, do you think we would be with you?